1. Telling everybody at work your business. Most people either don't care, just pretend to care, and all of them talk about you behind your back.
2. Stop being a professional victim, and begin to realize, recognize, and understand that most of the things that have happened to you, you brought on yourself. Don't continue to be your own worst enemy.
3. Stop trying to be anybody except who you are, and accept who you are. Fulfillment begins when you are the absolute best you that you can be. Being content with how The Lord created you gives him glory. Just improve upon your attributes, and work on your faults. Nobody can be you but you.