Until we learn to be grateful for what we have. We will not be blessed with what we want.
The fact of the matter is, there are thousands if not millions of people in the world who would not only love, but cherish the life that you complain about.
Of course, gratefulness may be a hard concept to embrace, especially in times of trouble. But as difficult as things are they could always be far worse.
If nothing else be grateful that they're not.